Yes, you map out the dilemma with such insight and sophistication! It's not just a skilled therapist, we need a whole new approach. We need research, research dollars and a commitment to find a better way than all these horror stories that people are describing. It's better not to go to therapy at all than to feel you are manipulated twice. There is involuntary sex offender treatment that shows some promise so I am not giving up hope that it can be found.

Thanks for reading my piece so thoughtfully and for your bravery in leaving a comment!