Thanks so much for sharing your Story Esther! Especially for the reminder that I can just post this on Medium for now as I'm testing the waters. It was so much more terrifying than I expected. I got into this great conversation with my 16 yo daughter about Bi-invisibility (maybe getting the term wrong) which makes loads of sense, and again, nice to have a word for something I've been feeling for a long time.
Anyway it means so much to me to see your comment as my heart's been beating so fast as soon as I saw this was published. THANK YOU!