I'm 50 years old and I'm publicly silent about my bisexuality. I'm a cis woman, married to a cis man and it's been 20 years since I've had sex with a woman. I tell myself I am not really a part of the queer community. I live such a life of privilege, and I hide behind that as a reason not to come out. I fear I don't know the right language (which I don't so my daughter's doing the best she can :) But mostly I think I have internalized Bi-phobia...Anyway, thanks for this article...it touched me deeply